要学会爱自己，善待自己

要学会爱自己，善待自己。
所谓善待，未必是拥有很多钱，也不是拥有昂贵的名牌包包。而是不管生活有多忙都得自己留下一些私人空间，一些独处的时间，从内心深处，懂得尊重自己，独立自主，把每一天都过得精彩充实。
Learn to love yourself and be kind to yourself.
The so-called kindness is not necessary needing a lot of money, nor is it possessing an expensive brand-name bag. Instead, no matter how busy life is, you have to have some private space, some 'me' time , and from the bottom of your heart, know how to respect yourself, be independent, and live a fulfilling life every day.
#tomum #loveyourself #liveyourbestlife.

不能经济独立，
就谈不上生活独立，
所以要学会经营赚钱及理财主之道。 
If we can't be financially independence, 
We can’t talk about independent lifestyle and time freedom. 
Therefore, we must always learn and keep improving on ways of making and manage money.

Live Life Ethically

Live life ethically, as the law of Cause and Effect exists.
待人处事时，时时记得人在做事天在看

Heart Hurts

Heart hurts because you care; your heart will not be broken by someone that you don't concern. Despite that，the feeling of love is always so sweet, even it hurts. Live Life!
心痛是因为你在意；你不在乎的人伤不到你的心。虽然如此，爱让人心跳，即使偶尔会受伤。放胆去爱吧

Live Life

People stay ordinary because they believe they are ordinary, people squeeze into their comfort zone when they experience pain and setbacks; they don't realize they can succeed and possess the greatness in them, what they need is to change the ways of thinking, change the style of welcoming each new day, step into new positive environment ；only by changing yourself that you change your life. Live Life!
许多人平平凡凡甚至很委屈的活着，是因为他们曾遭挫折而退缩了，也或许他们已习惯了忍气吞声的过生活;他们殊不知他们也有成功的希望，換另一个方式思考、換另一个姿态面临每个新的一天，进入积极的环境，唯有改变自己才能改变人生。活出最捧的自己。

Live Life

We will finally reach the destination, no matter how challenging is the journey, so long as we keep moving in the direction towards the destination .
即使过程再艱難、再挑战、我们一定能打达所向往的目的地，只要我们朝向目的地的方向迈进。

How far can a person walk is not depend on his legs, but his determination

How far can a person walk is not depend on his legs, but his determination.
人能走多久，靠的不是双脚，是志向.

1.能走多久，靠的不是雙腳，是志向，鴻鵠志在蒼宇，燕雀心系簷下；
　　
2.能登多高，靠的不是身軀，是意志，強者遇挫越勇，弱者逢敗彌傷；
　　
3.能做什麼，靠的不是雙手，是智慧，勤勞砥礪品性，思想創造未來；
　　
4.能看多遠，靠的不是雙眼，是胸懷，你裝得下世界，世界才會容納你。

Because of love, the goals in life are filled with meaning

Because of love, the goals in life are filled with meaning, full of drive and momentum .
因为爱，人生的目标更有意义，更有动力与衝勁。

Because of Love

Only love , care and sincerity that the door of the other heart could be opened.
让唯有以爱，关怀与真诚才能掀开心门

Lady on Battle Field

Lady seems so strong and unbeatable on the battle field, in actual fact that is just a shield that protect the fragile heart.
女人在职㘯上往往要摆出一副强女人樣，其实那是因为要掩护外人打击脆弱的心灵。

最好的报复是活得更坚持让生命更精彩

我的朋友分享一个悲惨的真实故事。她有个妹妹因为另一半移情别恋而为情自殺了！好多年以后家人的心痛仍难復原。
奉劝心碎的人千万不要为不爱我们的人伤害自己，变了心的人哪怕你心伤肠断，在乎你的人舍不得让你流淚。花心的人不值得你自残！你要谢谢老天爺的恩赐，没有让你的年华浪费在不值得的人身上！
最好的报复是活得更坚持让生命更精彩，让对方後悔他那么没眼光，他竟然错过了那么优秀的你！
时间会让阴影淡化，让你更坚持、更懂得生命的价值。

失败不是一无所成

不要将失败想象的太嚴重。
失败不是一无所成.
失败只是暫时的挫折，这个方法不管用，就改变另一个形式，再來一次吧！
不要一撃即败，太窝囊了。
Failure is nothing but just a temporary set back. Is is just an indication that If this approach is not workable, let's try another way, let's try again.
Don't be so fragile. Winning needs inner strength .

成功來自定位

成功來自定位。
如果你满意于你的薪水、你就得打一輩子工；如果没有人比你更捧，你可以当老板，但你可能放不下你的崗位、分身乏术而忙碌一生；如果你学习改变，学习建立网络及复制网络，你即可能以新的姿态活着另一种有品味有格调的人生。

Don't take things that you possessed for granted

Don't take things that you possessed for granted. Always value them with gratitude and appreciation. Happiness and Trust may disappear if you take that for granted.
不要将拥有的人事务视为理所当然。珍惜与感恩当下，並且善于表达；否则幸福和信任可能在无声息中悄然逐渐消失。

Say GoodBye to LEG

Effective Organisational Change Management

One of Change Management Consultants shared that three key factors that are most important for Orginational Changes and Development are :
1. Communicate the Purpose and the Approach with clarity
2. The Creditability of the Change Representative
3. Employees' Participation and Involvement

The Elements of Learning, Thinking and Creativity

Having so many years running the education institutions, I start thinking and searching for what make a person who he is and who he will be becoming, can a person change and transform, or everything is hard coded in the DNA?

This is my diary of observations and thoughts.

The influences are :
rigidity vs flexibility of a person
His thinking pattern
His learning attitude and behaviours
His associations with the external world
His perception on Life Success Possibility
His interpretation of his life experiences

The elements of thinking :
.Naming
.Catalogizing
.Grouping
.colours
.Pattern
.Words
.Trend

.Connection
.Co-relation
.

Elements of Learning
.Objectives
.Outcomes
.Process
.Submissive
.Formative
.Classroom Learning
.Team Learning
.Independent Learning
.Problem Solving
.Communication & Connection
.Presentation & Proposition

Feeding my soul
. Meditate. to have more exclusive time for myself
. get organise to sharpen my sight and insight
. searching for what's connecting me to joy and happiness


I Love Money
There is always a controversial view about money.
One view is Money is the source of all devils, so please stay away from it!
The one view is taking money as a vehicle, it is all depend on the owner of the vehicle to achieve the intended purpose.

In my younger days, while achieving corporate success, the fear of money taking control over me is deep rooted in me, and I plan for early retirement at the age of 40, as I am uneasy the way I spend, the manner I live. Many years after, I realize that the power is within us, and we must be comfortable with money as one of many tools and resources to build life.
 
I am now confidently say I love Money for when I have sufficient money, it allows me to break from fear of losing a job, walk away from places that do not reflect the values that I believe in, and I have greater degree of freedom to make choice on places to travels, path to take etc...

. A friend says - try not to use the credit card. Count the money, feel the money, treat money with respect. Sound very confucius : do upto others as how you would like other to do upto you. I will love money more for money to acknowledge me and flow towards me.

. I am happier with money than without, as it is the resource that allowing me to be more mobile and accessible to knowledge, places, people and things.

I urge you to review your belief in relation with Money. 

Be Happy

Feeding your soul for your wellness, health and wealth!

Love what you do,

Have passion for what you do,

Take pride in what you do,

constant renewing yourself and never become complacent,

Listen to your heart and just doing things for your heart.

父亲走了

星期日(19.12.2010)清晨, 父亲踏脚踏車出去.

通常星期天爸会和我们一起吃早飨, 所以我以为他出去一陣子就会到回來, 到了中午他依然沒有回來, 媽说他有帶些他的产品出去, 我想或许他跟朋友在一起吧. 到了晚上也沒有回來. 老公招急,我想爸或许又一时頑性突发出到北马去. 他曾经不告而別十多天让家人乾招急又安然无恙要回家.

老公拜托爸的朋友尋找, 我认为爸会回來的.

星期一(20.12.2010) 在公司开会时接到消息, 報上有報导有位身份不明的老死者, 疑是心脏發作死亡. 趕到医院確认, 果然是父亲.

星期日早上我相信爸是要在我未起床的时候在附近兜一圈就回到与我们吃早飨, 因为他連錢包及身份证都沒帶在身上.

感激老公心中的那股不安让我们能找到了父亲.

爸回家了, 爸回天国去了. 爸是回不來了.

加天加地加自己, 爸享年九十.

泣谢亲朋戚友同哀伤.